Muvhango’s James Airs Relationship Advice
Known to many television viewers as James Motsamai on SABC2 soapie Muvhango, Dingaan Mokebe is doubling as an agony aunt. The talented actor has been dishing out relationship advice and pearls of wisdom to the married people.
Dingaan has advised abomakoti and abo mkhwenyana who are “suffering” at the hands of their in-laws, that their partners are responsible for the way they are being treated. According to the Muvhango actor, if newlyweds or new partners experience any hostility from their in-laws, then their partners are the ones to blame.
In a post on the social media platform, Instagram, James said.
“You know, if your in-laws don’t like you or if they are mistreating you or if they are ill-treating you… all of that is your partner’s fault. All of that was caused by your partner and nobody else. Your in-laws didn’t just wake up one day and decide ‘we don’t like this woman/man’. Your partner allowed it.
“If your in-laws are treating you like nonsense, don’t blame them, look at your partner!” he said.
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The James Motsomai actor also slammed partners who do not speak up for their partners when they are being ill-treated by in-laws. Dingaan insisted that people should always take their partners’ side if there is any conflict with family.
“There’s no way that my family — and I’m talking about me personally— would ever treat my wife or partner or girlfriend or anybody that I am involved with like a piece of nothing. There’s no way and they know it because I would never stand for it. I will always defend the person I am with.”
Wise words indeed from Dingaan. Let those who have ears hear.
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