Mpumelelo Mseleku’s baby mama Vuyokazi Nciweni, has dropped hints on why she walked away from her polygamous relationship.
The last episode of Izingane Zes’thembu season 2 aired on Sunday 28 July 2024, bringing the curtains down on the rollercoaster journeys of children born from polygamous marriages.
Vuyokazi Nciweni In The Bumpy Polygamous Relationship With Mpumelelo Mseleku
During the season, Vuyo, who has two children with Mseleku Jr, dumped her baby daddy. She did not reveal the reason for her decision but hinted to the Daily Sun on the one of her motivations for leaving:
“The show was toxic, but it was a real experience. I regret not speaking up sooner. I was always told to respect the man, which made me look foolish.”
Mseleku Jr said he wants to marry a virgin as his first wife, and not any of his two girlfriends, Vuyo and Tirelo. Despite this hurting her, Vuyo told the Daily Sun that she has since moved on from that chapter:
“I healed while I was in the relationship. I had been made an idiot. The whole virgin thing showed me he didn’t need me even after I gave him two kids. Even if he would’ve changed his mind, made me the first wife or even married me, I’d still not be happy in that marriage. I’d rather move on with my life.
“My kids stay with me now. I want them to grow in one place, and don’t want them to be introduced to different girls. How are they going to love them if they don’t love me.
Sunday World reported that Vuyo has moved on from Mseleku Jr and is now dating Xolani Sabelo, a Durban chef.
Tirelo On The Other Hand…
Tirelo, who remained in the relationship, was emotive during Sunday’s season finale.
She explained:
“The season finale didn’t show everything. Viewers didn’t see everything. The part they showed me crying, I didn’t just cry out of nowhere, it started somewhere. They know why I cried. I know my truth and how everything unfolded. We’re still cruising nicely. To those predicting doom, I’ll cross that bridge when I come to it.”