A married Tshwane couple has revealed that they have been happily married for 30 years without having lula lula.
Married Couple Spends 30 Years Of No Lula Lula
Thabo and Nomsa Mokoena, both 52, say that they made a vow of celibacy when they got married in 1994 and have never broken it.
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The couple, who are devout Christians, told Daily Sun that they decided to abstain from lula lula after reading the Bible and praying together. They believe that s_x is a gift from God that should only be used for procreation, and that avoiding it has brought them closer to each other and to God.
“We don’t need sex to express our love. We have a deep connection that goes beyond the physical. We communicate, we support, we respect, and we cherish each other. S_x is not important to us,” Thabo said.
Nomsa added that they have never felt tempted to have it or to cheat on each other. She said that they are satisfied with their relationship and that they don’t miss anything.
“We are not missing out on anything. We have a lot of joy and peace in our marriage. We have three beautiful children who were conceived through artificial insemination. We are very blessed and grateful,” Nomsa said.
What Their Friends And Relatives Think
The couple’s unusual marriage has attracted a lot of attention and curiosity from their friends, family, and neighbours. Some people have praised them for their commitment and faith, while others have questioned their sanity and happiness.
“Some people think we are crazy or lying. They don’t understand how we can live without s_x. They think we are unhappy or unfulfilled. But we are not. We are very happy and content. We don’t care what people think or say. We are doing what is right for us and for God,” Thabo said.
Nomsa said that they are not trying to impose their lifestyle on anyone else. She said that they respect other people’s choices and opinions, and that they only want to share their testimony and inspire others.
“We are not judging anyone or saying that our way is the only way. We are just sharing our story and our faith. We hope that our story can encourage other couples to trust God and to find happiness in their marriages, with or without sex,” Nomsa said.
